The Story of Stuart and My Three Lucky Coins
Two years
ago, while on a day trip to Niagara-on-the-Lake with my mom and sister, I was
pulled into a store called “The Shiny Company” by the laws of attraction, and
the force of gravity.
Having not
even known the name of the store at the time, too mesmerized instead by the
African statues, Buddha figures, and beautiful, beautiful rocks, I just knew
that it was my kind of store.
As I ooed
and awed at the beautiful collection of worldly items in the store, the owner
and I struck up a conversation. His name was Stuart. He spoke with an accent,
English or British, one of those ones that make you want to talk with an accent
too, which I did after a few minutes speaking to him, and he didn’t even judge
me. He told me a few stories about the different countries he had travelled to,
each item in his store carrying with it a different story, and a different
lesson.
That day, I
purchased 4 things from his store. The first was a package of vanilla incense,
which I burned sparingly, except for the very last stick which is still in my
drawer, untouched. The second was a lucky coin, which I carried with me
everywhere. The third was a pair of pearl earrings that made me feel like Queen
Elizabeth every time I paired them with an outfit. And the last was a tiny
little Buddha statue, meant to bring you goodness on your spiritual journey.
When I got
home that day, after sharing hands-down one of the most enlightening,
enriching, and passionate human encounters in my life, so powerful in fact that
upon leaving his store I had been moved to tears by the experience itself, I
put the Buddha at the highest point in my room. On top of my black cd case,
almost as high as my ceiling, the Buddha sits, on the very edge, and brings me
luck on my spiritual journey.
Well, I
like to think so.
Yesterday,
I went back to Niagara-on-the-Lake. I walked right into the store, saw Stuart
standing behind his counter, just as I had seen him two years ago.
“Hi
Stuart,” I said.
He looked
up at me, a bit unfamiliar with my face. But the look of recognition took over
his face immediately as he remembered who I was.
And who was
I? Really? Other than a shopper in his boutique who had said a few words to
him, as I’m sure many other people have.
We caught
up, asked each other a few questions about how life had been since. While mine
was full of exciting stories about growth, knowledge and travel, his stories
carried much more sadness and worry.
Stuart
shared with me that The Shiny Company wasn’t so shiny anymore. The night before
our second encounter, he had been up worrying. This saddened me.
I wanted to
buy everything in the store. The first reason being because I wanted to help
Stuart get out of his rut. The second reason being everything in that store
belongs in my home.
But I
couldn’t afford it.
So instead I wrote this post. I thought about writing about my experience with him, his store, the lucky coin, the pearl earrings, the incense, and the Buddha. Just to pay homage to Shiny Stu.
We took a
few pictures, said goodbye, and I gave him the best hug that I could ever give
a friend. But as I walked away from his store, I felt that the one purchase I
had made wasn’t enough. The hug I gave him wasn’t enough. And not even writing
about my encounter with “Shiny Stu” would be enough.
So I turned
around, ran back into his store, and gave him three lucky coins that were given
to me a while back. Even after I had the one lucky coin I purchased from his
store.
When they
were given to me, I was told that I should keep them together at all times,
because the best luck would come from them being in 3. The person that gave
them to me, my former boss at a catering company I worked for, who was leaving
to work for another company that day, suggested I put them by my school books.
But when I
got home and placed the three coins on my textbooks, I felt like I didn’t want
luck to get me through my studies, I wanted hard work and dedication to get me
there instead. So I kept the coins in my
wallet for the last two years, hoping
they’d bring me more wealth.
Within just
a few months of keeping the coins there, I started making more money through
working full-time. I was able to pay down some of my debt, and bought myself a
ticket to Barbados.
Despite not
being a millionaire (yet), I felt that I had received all the luck those coins
could give me, and that maybe it was someone else’s turn to have the coins.
There had
been a few instances that I wanted to give the coins away. One time was when a
Chinese family came in to the restaurant I had worked at for a goodbye dinner.
Their parents had retired and were going back to China to live. I was going to
give the coins to the parents as they left, but I stopped and thought, if
they’ve retired and going back home, I think they have all the luck they need.
But
yesterday, I saw Stuart’s eyes. He wasn’t as alive as he was that first time I
met him, two summers ago.
I wanted to
bring Stuart back to life. I wanted each person that passed by The Shiny
Company to be pulled in there by the same laws of attraction and forces of
gravity that I was.
So I
sprinted back into his store. I gave him the three coins and I said,
“Here
Stuart. I want you to have these.”
When he
asked me what they were, I told him they were lucky coins. He asked no more
questions after that. He just reached his hand out, and as I put them into his
palm, he closed his hand over them and held onto them so tightly.
I gave him
the same instructions that I was given. To keep them all together at all times,
and just hold on.
As I took
one last look at Stuart before exiting his store, I realize that Stuart didn’t
lose his shine. It just dulled a little bit. And really, we all lose our shine
sometimes. We go through periods where we are less alive than we used to be.
But then something happens and we are brought back to life. And because we are
alive, we are able to bring other things, other people to life.
Two years
ago, Stuart brought me to life. I left that store that day with a burning
desire to live, to connect, to inspire and be inspired. Everytime I burned that
incense, I thought of my conversation with Shiny Stu. Everytime I saw that
lucky coin, I thought of him. And everytime I looked up at the Buddha, sitting
on the edge of my black CD stand, almost touching the ceiling, I thought of
Stuart.
I have no
idea what those coins will bring to Stuart, but I know that they will bring him
luck. Not because he has the coins, but because he now has the hope.
When I left
the store the second, third time rather, I finally felt that I had done enough. I felt
just as fulfilled as I had the first time I left his store, two summers ago. I
felt that yesterday, I had given Stuart what he gave me.
A little
bit of connection.
Something
for the books.
A little
bit of luck.
And a lot,
a lot a lot a lot, of hope.
If you ever
happen to be at Niagara-on-the-Lake, please stop by and see my dear friend Stuart
at his store, “The Shiny Company”. Because everyone deserves to have a friend,
a Buddha and a lucky coin.
And some
hope. Everyone deserves some hope.
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